Your mate, boyfriend, significant other or whatever you want to call him is married. That’s right, I said married. I won’t leave out in a relationship with someone else either. The point is, you knew he was married or involved with someone but didn’t care. You couldn’t care less if the guy is married or in a relationship. You know today I read 2 in 5 women pursue or prefer to be involved with married and/or men who are already in a relationship. Men who are taken appear to be more attractive then men who are not. Have you done this before? Have you been involved with a married man or didn’t care a guy was involved with someone else?
What triggers this type of behavior? First of all I would think that you are in favor of infidelity. You don’t mind cheating, dishonesty and just simply being a part of something that is wrong. Bottom line, if you tell me you wouldn’t mind your husband or significant other cheating on you then I could see why you don’t mind being the other woman yourself although it’s still wrong. Hey, the men are definitely at fault here. I’m not overlooking the guys here who are doing the cheating. Quite frankly, you suck. What about the women who purposely like to date the married or involved men?
What’s attractive about a married guy? Is it the fact that he knows how to commit to a woman? Well, if he’s cheating with you then he doesn’t understand commitment. Is it a challenge to be able to steal someone’s man from them? If you like that type of a challenge then you’re just plain sick. I guess ripping a family apart is amusing, just to satisfy your own needs regardless of how other people feel. I know, I know… he’s the one that’s in the wrong, he’s the one that’s cheating, it’s on him not me. I heard that one so many times. First of all, two wrongs don’t make a right; you’re a part of infidelity regardless of who initiated it, regardless of who’s married and who’s not married, you’re a part of it. Now if you’re involved with a guy whom you knew was already in a committed relationship with someone but not married, does it make it right? Is it easier for you to be involved with him? If the shoe was on the other foot, would you be good with the man you love and care about decides to step out and cheat with another woman. After all, you don’t mind being involved with an attached man so you shouldn’t mind your man cheating on you if you’re in a relationship. Don’t you realize if he’s cheating with you he’ll cheat on you. Whoa wait a minute… I forgot, you have the goody good. Your stuff is so good that he won’t want to cheat on you. You know, interviewing 1500 women… 90% of them said their stuff is better then everyone else’s. I guess it’s good to believe that and have self-confidence in what you have. Just match that with what the guys would say and we’d have some interesting discussion. Guys may say you have some good stuff, but guess what… that certainly won’t keep them involved only with you.
I’ve heard many women say, “I really don’t trust other women”. Well after listening to these various women talk about how they prefer a guy that’s attached… I don’t blame them one bit. Quite frankly it’s ridiculous and it’s disrespectful. Talk about a fundamentally flawed character. Yes, your character is in serious question. If you’re successful with going after married men, if you really thing about it, you’re attracted to men who cheat. That’s all you know. Are you a commitment phobe yourself? Is it easier just to be involved with folks who are already involved because you really don’t understand what relationships and commitments are all about?
So what happens next? Do you continue to get yourself involved with married guys or guys in a relationship from this point on? One after another, and another and another. 10 years from now you’re still doing the same thing. Good luck!!! Prepare to live a lonely life if that’s the case. I’m done.
Mr. Producer
RealTalkRealLife 
Posted on August 17, 2011
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